tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post4249585893012768624..comments2024-02-05T01:28:44.263-07:00Comments on Tagg, Darci, & Londyn: Blessed, but frustratedtaggdarcihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15310530328709740056noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-40012079305952336142012-08-22T15:18:54.757-06:002012-08-22T15:18:54.757-06:00http://vanillasushi.blogspot.com
Please check out...http://vanillasushi.blogspot.com<br /><br />Please check out my blog <br /><br />I love yours :)VanillaSushi <-family bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05818454656058067162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-66082248763309495022012-04-11T07:52:23.116-06:002012-04-11T07:52:23.116-06:00You don't know me, but you know a lot of peopl...You don't know me, but you know a lot of people that used to be in my ward in Chubbuck before we moved to SC. I have found that most people say things with good intentions and honestly they don't know that they are saying something offensive because they haven't gone through it themselves. <br />Trying for a few years before having 2 miscarriages (people are also very insensitive about this as well) before being able to have my son after being married for 6 years before we got pregnant with him, we got a lot of comments about kids and pregnancy and sex for that matter. <br />There are some people out there that only have to think about getting pregnant and it happens--for many others it takes alot of effort and it is very frustrating. I often think that at times it is harder on the woman than the man because of the bond that you develop by carrying a baby. I know at times my husband was tired of hearing me complain, cry, etc... over the same thing for the upteenth time. If you ever need to vent without judgement...go ahead and e-mail me. I will add you as a friend of facebook too. my e-mail is allstar.j8atgmail <br />You can do hard things! :DJessica https://www.blogger.com/profile/15601773300163897365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-74736640279368012132012-02-27T16:27:30.183-07:002012-02-27T16:27:30.183-07:00Darci, my heart hurts for you right now. I underst...Darci, my heart hurts for you right now. I understand, all too well, the hurt people can inflict when they open their mouths without thinking. (I was informed a few sundays ago that I couldn't sit on the back row in RS, because "you don't have a baby." Aaahhh!)I also know how deeply it hurts to watch your child grow without siblings despite your best efforts to provide them. Wyatt just turned 5, and he's constantly asking for a baby or "just someone to play with." It is gut-wrenching. No one has the answers for you, and there's no band-aid to slap on it. We each have to find our own way through it. But, I do believe that our Heavenly Father can and will hold our hand through it, providing a balm for our hurt as no one else can. It doesn't make it magically better, and you still have to face it everyday. BUT, it helps me to know that HE sees my pain perfectly... so I can cry to him without having to explain. I really do wish we lived closer... it seems there is a lot we share and could support each other through (LE wifehood, infertility, etc.).<br />Oh, and btw, I think you SHOULD flick people in the face for their rude comments! And if you're uncomfortable with that, use a REALLY flippant retort to put them in their place! I'll loan you a few of mine! :)Laureenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11469543522244915030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-947809431126390632012-02-25T23:13:49.203-07:002012-02-25T23:13:49.203-07:00Oh Girl I Love ya!!! I wish I had the magic cure o...Oh Girl I Love ya!!! I wish I had the magic cure or answer for you!!! All I can say is that Your amazing and your in our prayers every night!!! Hang in there!! I just live right next door so come over and vent!! I also can make you cookies whenever you want! :)Melonie Harrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11445575627808599269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-48158975862553010282012-02-20T21:29:44.718-07:002012-02-20T21:29:44.718-07:00You CAN do hard things. I am so sorry. I am sure...You CAN do hard things. I am so sorry. I am sure I am one of those people who says something stupid, and doesn't realize what it means. So I apologize for anything crazy that has come out of my mouth, or out of my keyboard for that matter ;) Good luck girl! I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you guys!angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18259131243613673463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-21691889289916805352012-02-20T15:59:20.416-07:002012-02-20T15:59:20.416-07:00it's such a hard, sensitive, emotional topic.....it's such a hard, sensitive, emotional topic...and people are rude and ignorant! i am glad that you have your little londyn and hope that she will have a sibling soon! good luck girlie!alicia kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17679479370817231693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-48393690767884336792012-02-20T15:57:29.505-07:002012-02-20T15:57:29.505-07:00Reading this make me cry, I want to hope in the ca...Reading this make me cry, I want to hope in the car right now and come and give you a hug. There is nothing worse then infertility and pain it brings with it. For everyone it is a little different but I agree with you 100%, if you have never had to go through it then you really have no clue the hell it is. It is amazing the things people say too, the one that always got me is it will happen when its suppose to happen, or this is God's plan. I am wishing you the best, my fingers are crossed that 7 is lucky again for you guys. If you need anything or just need to vent know that I am here for you. Love you like crazy girl!S. Gallowayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05685484245349583922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-29070230275084444202012-02-20T15:45:13.513-07:002012-02-20T15:45:13.513-07:00You deserve it! I pray for you and love you girl....You deserve it! I pray for you and love you girl. Remember you can always call or email me to vent anytime. Kudos to you and Tagg for continuing to try. You can do hard things!lrixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02501401509452008096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1540895694568350258.post-29215168232319374322012-02-20T15:23:39.854-07:002012-02-20T15:23:39.854-07:00It's good to have an outlet to vent frustratio...It's good to have an outlet to vent frustrations and Amen to what you wrote. I hate when people say "It will happen" because in your mind you know it isn't happening and it isn't that easy. It is so easy for me to feel like a failure because I only have 2 kids and am surrounded by those who have 5 or 6 in a family. I am starting to try some essential oils and am hoping it will help me. You have a beautiful daughter and you guys are great parents.heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05562424952192319356noreply@blogger.com